You must understand that this is really important you must educate yourself when you are on a date with a trans person. Don’t start an exam with them asking your own questions. Transgender people are not there to educate you on any topic like this. Get your knowledge from external sources. You may think you know what a trans person is, but if all your knowledge came from popular media, you might actually have no idea and not even realize it. Look, it is okay not to know everything and this is also true that it is impossible to know everything.
Listen, if you think you can trans person this kinda question and that also on a date you are not gonna get any more chances with that guy or girl.Crossing boundaries can quickly turn the person off.That is one of the stupid things to do on a trans dating. One of the things they are going to do after this is to simply ignore you.
#Make your surrounding comfortable
This goes with everyone trans non trans, you have to make your surrounding as comfortable as it can be. It’s date, you know date. It has to be fun and love all around kind of a situation. Make them comfortable by using the correct pronouns they would like to listen. Do not assume anything by yourself. And always remember don’t rush into things just listen to them and go with your instincts.
For someone who doesn’t have this kind of dysphoria, it may be hard to understand, but if the shemales you’re dating says that a certain body part is off limits, respect that. You should be paying attention to their ease and comforts with you. Only then you can think of moving forward with them. It is about doing the things for each other not just for your selfish reasons.
Most trans people have body dysphoria, which means that they have an inherent discomfort with certain parts of their body, usually their primary and secondary sex characteristics. So they need extra care being with someone else. They may not feel as comfortable with you so easily as they do with their own self. So you need to take care of them with extra efforts. Sometimes people can adapt a little as they become more familiar with you, but don’t count on it.
#Take Your Time
Do not rush. Take you time. That’s not the right way specially with your new trans date. Stop rushing. Rushing never helped anyone when it comes to trans dating. It takes time to get to know someone, and honestly most women don’t know themselves very well either so don’t take anything for granted just go with the flow.
#Remember That Your Date is More Than Just a Trans Person
Listen, stop judging them for being a trans. First of all if you are dating them that means you are willing to accept them as who they are. And that’s right way to be with someone. Accept them with all your heart. Love them care for them treat them as you want yourself to get treated. Respect them with all your heart. Always remember they are more than your date. Do your best to see them as what they are: human beings, with their own wants, needs and fantasies.
And never assume things from your own mind like thinking very positively for your future from their side also. Take time and slowly rush into taking your decisions like that. They are also human being. They are dating you that doesn’t guarantee any kind of commitment from their side.